Alicia and Ted.
Let me just say that I am all about gender equality in all realms of life.... except in manual labor. With groups, Ted segregates the sexes with girls on seedlings and boys out in the field and I. Love. It. I feel I've paid my dues; I've spent hours weeding, harvesting, laying irrigation and prepping fields but I feel my contribution is not in providing labor. Rather, I rally up OTHER people who are willing and able to put in hard labor. Instead of letting myself feel shitty and inadequate about it, I just accept there are a ton of roles to have and ways people can help out a farm.